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Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

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  • she/he/fleur
  • virgo sun + scorpio rising + scorpio moon
  • infp - t
  • disabled + neurodivergent
  • genderfluid + omnisexual + greyromantic
  • afrolatinx
  • leftist
  • agnosticΒ 
  • furry (kinda? maybe?)
  • pet parent (I have two turtles ❀)
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βŠπ”Šπ”’π”«π”’π”―π”žπ”© 𝔦𝔫𝔱𝔒𝔯𝔒𝔰𝔱𝔰 ❊

  • history
  • politics and sociology
  • writing
  • worldbuilding
  • making ocs
  • science (specifically astronomy and paleontology)
  • astrology
  • art
  • baking
  • editing photos/making moodboards
  • making playlists
  • shitposting
  • sewing
  • crocheting
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  • fallout
  • stardew valley
  • the simsΒ 
  • bioshock
  • borderlands
  • portal
  • minecraft
  • undertale
  • pokemon
  • the legend of zelda
  • twin peaks
  • x-files
  • wayward pines
  • pacific rim
  • horror movies
  • seinfeld
  • it’s always sunny in philadelphiaΒ 
  • house md
  • scott pilgrim vs the world
  • sailor moon crystal
  • octonauts
  • my little pony
  • disney
  • studio ghibli
  • anything marvel or dc related
  • ferris bueller’s day off
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  • 100 gecs
  • A Flock of Seagulls
  • ABBA
  • Cosmo Sheldrake
  • Cardi B
  • Dorian Electra
  • Doja Cat
  • Florence + The Machines
  • Frank Sinatra
  • Honey Gentry
  • Hozier
  • Hall & Oates
  • Jack Stauber
  • Lana Del Rey
  • Lord Huron
  • Lorde
  • Lil Mariko
  • Lil Nas X
  • Marty Robbins
  • MARINA
  • Megan Thee Stallion
  • Nicole Dollanganger
  • Nirvana
  • Of Monsters and Men
  • Red Hot Chili Peppers
  • Slayyter
  • The Weeknd
  • Woody Guthrie
  • Zella Day
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  • coquette
  • vintage/retro americana
  • vaporwave
  • angelcore
  • dreamcore
  • dollcore
  • softcore
  • pinkcore
  • cottagecore
  • grandmacore
  • gremlincore
  • cryptidcore
  • bastardcore
  • chaoscore
  • weirdcore
  • oddcore
  • morute
  • webcore
  • mall goth
  • grunge
  • western/cowboycore
  • regional gothic
  • dark + light academia
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  • radfem/TERFs/SWERFs
  • anti-feminist
  • (No)MAP
  • NSFW/p0rn accounts
  • ddlg
  • proship
  • bi/pan/aroace exclusionist
  • anti-mogai
  • anti-neopronouns
  • queerphobic in any capacity
  • racists
  • ableistsΒ 
  • proana/thinspo
  • tankie
  • harry potter fan/fan of jk rowling in any way. Even and especially including the β€˜separate the art from the artist people.’ Y'all stupid as hell
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cowsabungus
cowsabungus

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his also means that asking disabled people about their disability, when they are not known to you or especially if its a personal boundary for the disabled person, is rude. Obviously there is nuance and everyone is different, some may be happy to talk while others may find it triggering. Asking complete strangers is rude.


ID:

Line art illustration of a man, with scarring covering majority of his face, and his arms, as well as an upper erm amputation on the left and finger amputations on the right hand. Text reads: Disability Pride Month, You are entirely within your right to refuse to answer strangers who ask invasive medical questions. You are not rude for refusing to answer, they are rude for asking. You're entitled to your privacy. End of ID.

hellyeahscarleteen
hellyeahscarleteen

Sex and Disability

Disabled Sex Yes!
Being disabled doesn't mean you can't have a rewarding and awesome sex life.
Scarleteen

This Disability Pride Month, check out our series on Sex and Disability! This isn't meant to be a be-all-end-all guide toΒ sexΒ and disability because a) it's not, and b) there just can't ever be such a thing with any guide to sex. This series, much like your entireΒ sexualΒ life, is a work in progress and an endless, ongoing conversation. We hope this can be a good place for you to get started, and something that starts you on the path of good feelings about sex and your disability. Read the introduction above, or skip to one of the sections below:

Taking Your Body for a Ride: Masturbation and Disability

Disabled Sex: Sex for Two (or More)

Consent Is Sexy: Sexual Autonomy and Disability

Sex on the Brain: Sex and Autism, Mental Illness, and Other Cognitive Diversity

Your Body is Not a Sex Object: Devotees and Disability

Wheelchair, Bound? Kink and Disability

I Beg Your Pardon? Dealing with Rude Nondisableds

(Check out the rest of our disability-focused content here)

gwydion-aacblog
gwydion-aacblog

feel like tell story when look at someone blog who talk about disabilities and accept all and stuff like that but then look for anything even mention intellectual disability and is nothing , not even vague positivity .

those is people that most scare try say anything to because will probably just assume intellectual disability and internet not mix , so anyone with intellectual disability on internet is fake person , or assume have same intelligence competence abilities just because online .

feel like people not understand what means and think just little hard to learn or everything impossible ever , for every single person .

ineffectualdemon
ineffectualdemon

Also touching on the disability discourse because apparently it's that kind of day

Dividing the disabled community is bad

To be clear I am disabled. I have very limited mobility and severe pain, I use mobility devices, and I am also neurodivergent

Neurodivergent people aren't stealing access or resources from people with disabilities that affect their mobility. It's abled people who are not doing enough for those with mobility issues

And yes I am using mobility rather then physical disabilities because I see autism as a physical disability because it affects how you interact with the world physically

People who don't have sensory issues tend to dismiss them as not that bad. But I have chronic pain from arthritis and fibromyalgia that leaves me bed bound when I have a flare. Like my daily pain level is a 7.5

My joint pain is very bad

My pain when I am having a bad sensory day from my sensory issues is often at an 8. The pain is different but no less real and it's inescapable

I can take pain meds for my arthritis and fibro. I cannot take pain meds for when my environment is hurting me

My autism is no less disabling than my chronic pain

And people with autism and other neurodivergence should advocate for their accessibility needs

Just as much as there needs to be advocacy for mobility needs. There are plenty of places I cannot go because I use a walker and getting seating or accessible options is unnecessarily difficult and enraging

And the disabled community as a whole should fight for better accessibility for mobility and that includes ND folk speaking up for those with mobility needs

But dividing the community and blaming ND folk for the fact that some venues and businesses say "accessible for neurodivergent people" while no making it accessible for mobility is not useful

It's not ND folk who are making that policy. Target the abled people who are trying to take the "easy" way out

Accessibility for all disabled people

Don't let the abled divide us

bebsi-cola
bebsi-cola

happy disability pride to the people with memory issues and brainfog. who can't answer when they started experiencing symptoms, when they started their meds, what they did last week/yesterday/this morning. happy disability pride to the people who miss appointments because they forgot, especially really important appointments. who are told to get their results or follow up on an appointment and never end up doing it. the people who would benefit immensely from reminders or someone writing things down for them, who try or are made to try and all the organisation tips in the world won't help them remember them when they need it

disabledmachineherald
disabledmachineherald

a way you can help some i/dd and cognitively disabled people is by clarifying what kind of response you want if you're not open to any kind of response

like, specifying that you want comfort or advice or solidarity or some other kind of acknowledgement, or if you want just an emoji or to change the subject, or if you want to close the conversation, like

just fucking communicate. give us feedback. tell us what you want

if you need clarification ask for it. if you need us to rephrase ask for it

we're communicating or verbalizing the only way we know how. and if you're not like this you can't even begin to scrape the fucking surface of understanding how hard it is

identitty-dickruption
identitty-dickruption

happy disability pride month to ADHDers. people with ADHD that prevents them from being able to work or study or maintain friendships. people with ADHD who forget to eat or can’t cook or burn anything they try to cook. people with ADHD who are restless and impulsive and do dangerous things because boredom is physically painful. happy disability pride month to people with ADHD who are sick of people acting like ADHD isn’t a proper disability

sorin-sunchild
sorin-sunchild

Yes, I'm a fat, hairy, balding trans man. No it's not a glowup, or a glowdown or an anything. I don't exist to be conventionally attractive. I'm not somebodies success story. And if I am, it's because I'm extremely happy and so glad I transitioned. I don't see a lot of ftm before & after glowups and hardly any mtf glowups which include non-conventionally attractive body types/people and I'm here for you all. We are a glowup, actually, because society can stick it's 'you have to look a certain way' up it's holes.

onceuponamidnightdrizzle
thegirlmirage

My queers, we really need to put the "no men" thing away. Men are not inherently bad. There are queer men. There are questioning men. There's men that are just plain cool. Denying these men a space at our table is not helping - except the TERFs. I just came off the back of reading a transphobe gleeful rant about the need to have pride without men - They of course mean me. This kind of stuff is damaging to me and I really need us all to take a step back and maybe kill this "men dni, men not allowed" stuff. What you mean is "no men who are going to do mean stuff to me." And frankly those men won't give a shit about that kind of boundary.

But I promise you there's a fleet of good honest men who will see that and be sad they're not allowed in your version of queer spaces.

PATRIARCHY is what you hate. Dni Patriarchs.

itsladykit

"Men DNI" in a blog's header gets an immediate block from me. If you're going to reject--wholesale--roughly half the population, I don't want to know you.